The Moon Teaches Mindfulness
I feel frustration *and also* I feel the gifts. I literally see how things will be different tomorrow. The Moon reminds me that everything shifts. Tiny steps make way for larger shifts in the long run. Don't get hung up on making big leaps if it's not happening… take a step wherever the flow comes.
When fear brings you to your knees, courage is the way out
Where have you been hiding in plain sight? Here I grapple with sending a newsletter in favor of the social media algorithm’s folly. Don’t let fear hold you in her strangled grip.
What story is your mind telling you?
How do you set goals? Often your mind sets them for you. There may be obvious ego at play about how you want to look or be seen. Can you question below those surface ideals? What’s the longing lurking beneath? What would serve on a deeper level? In this post I discuss goals and how to pick metrics for tracking things that don’t involve stepping on a scale or some other obvious check in.
That New Kid Feeling
Trying new things builds character and is as important a muscle to work as the physical body.
New Love, Powerlessness of the Past, and Baloney
Even sweet moments can open portals to past memories. I own my stories, even when they cause me pain, because they awaken a sense of gratitude for what my life looks and feels like now.
Mid-Year Check-in: The Power of Speed
Changing up the speed you do particular tasks at can energize you and give your nervous system a much-needed reset.
Core: Word of the Year Check in
One of the great pleasures of choosing a Word for the Year is seeing how it unfolds and reveals itself to you. My word for 2019 is Core. Here’s what’s opening up at the 6-month mark.
A Summer Solstice Gathering
At Summer Solstice the light gradually yields to the dark. Celebrate this transition of light to dark by hosting a party with decor that weaves twinkly lights and shadow together. Have Tarot decks and Oracle cards available for guests to discuss intentions and dream of the days to come.
Stop Giving Power Away: A Health Perspective
Some systems in our society feel designed to take your power away. Don’t fall for it. Here’s how to build a support team — including doctors and other professionals — that support you, your goals and your values, not the other way around.
Stop relegating your dreams to party stories
Don’t steal your own steam by talking too much about your dreams. Talking and sharing ideas takes energy, and this output can feel like it’s getting you closer to the thing. But it doesn’t. Talking isn’t the same as doing. The old adage is true: Actions do speak louder than words.
How can you bring your best self to various parts of your life?
Are you sabotaging yourself by usurping your own time? *raises hand* Here’s why I hired not one but two coaches to help me wake up to the nasty habits I was gradually adopting. Hello, major course correction. I may be cranky, but I’m heading back in the direction of my dreams rather than being a victim of complacency.
Are Hidden Fears Holding You Back?
Are you waiting for opportunities to come to you so you can be the judge and jury? Why not go after what you want by taking BOLD leaps to get there? Between the desire to be seen and the fear of rejection, there are many pitfalls along the way of this journey, rewarding though it may be (but that foresight is hard to come by).